Lessons from Your First Heartbreak

At 22 years old, going through my first heartbreak was never something I mentally prepared for, but looking back on it, it’s rewarding to be able to share your story with hope that others experiencing the same thing know they aren’t alone. Here’s the blunt truth: You hurt, life hurts and you find yourself living…

10 Reasons Why Britney Spears is Still a Boss Babe

Hit Song After the Next  With 8 albums, is there not one Britney Song that we can’t name? From “Hit Me Baby One More Time” to “Slave 4 U,” Britney has the most catchy songs that get stuck in everyone’s head. 2.  THAT Bod With her rock solid abs and “bum-bastic” booty, Britney is the…

Learning to Enjoy Your Own Company

Let’s be real, having a squad of friends is something we all wish we could have, but that doesn’t mean we necessarily need it to be happy. I’ve always been told that if you learn to love life, life will love you back. The older I’ve gotten, the more I’ve given precedent to that idea. I’ve…

Selena Gomez’s Best Style Moments

I’m not sure what it is, but for some reason Selena Gomez has  the closet I would love to raid. Over the years she has transformed and endured her dubbed “revival,” but her style game has become one of the best in the business! In honor of Selena Gomez’s 24th birthday today, we’re breaking down…

What every Heartbroken Girl Wants You to Know

When you go through heartbreak, it feels like the end of the world. You hurt, life hurts and soon your life becomes a sad Taylor Swift song. While the sadness seems to never go away, eventually it does (surprise!). *Side note: It really is irritating, when everyone that told you that you would get over…

Feng Shui Your Mind to Confidence

Are there ever times where you feel that you are a Pumpkin amongst Cinderellas of the world? You feel average, hopeless and just not “cool” enough? Do you ever wish you were one of those trendy girls on Instagram seeming to live fabulous lives, while you’re struggling with paying rent, passing your classes and figuring…

Why “The Good Girl” label needs to stop

If there’s one thing to know about me, it’s that I’ve always been labeled as “The Good Girl.” Now being labeled as that, for as long as I can remember, has its’ benefits and consequences. At first thought, you may be thinking, “Umm what’s wrong with being a good girl?” Of course my immediate response…

The Stages of Post-Grad Life

Graduating college is an exciting time, but like any transition period, it can bring a whirlwind of emotions and changes that you may not be properly prepared for. Call me the cliche, “emotional train wreck,” but I have gone through as many emotions enough to qualify me for the leading role in a  Lifetime network film. Although…

What “Me Before You” Taught Me About Life

I heard about the book. I bought the book. I read it. I sobbed. I’m sure many of you have seen the trailers for the just released film adaptation of the best-selling novel, “Me Before You.” I’m the type of person that never falls into the hype or bases my opinions off of what others say….

Why I won’t buy books on Amazon

Call me old-fashioned, but I actually like going to a bookstore. In today’s society, the online world is dominating physical businesses. Online print is being favored over newspapers. Online shopping is preferred than going to a mall. Amazon has become the new go-to bookstore, rather than Barnes and Noble. While anything online can be more…

New Published Posts!

Hello everyone! So I realized that I haven’t mentioned some of my recently published articles on The Haute Mess site! The cool thing about each of these articles is that they have all been featured on my blog already. If you haven’t checked them out, feel free to give them a read and I hope…

New Article Published!

Hey ya’ll! My new article was published on The Haute Mess this week! Be sure to check it out! Also please don’t judge me, I really am that awkward girl lol